Valentines Day for singles.

Valentines Day for Singles – 11 Ways to Love YOU!

Valentine’s day for singles doesn’t have to be depressing. You can make it an extra special day. If you’re single learn to see Valentine’s Day in a whole new way.

Will you be YOUR Valentine today?

Whether or not you have an intimate partner or special someone to share Valentine’s Day with, I suggest you also ask yourself to be your own Valentine. And if you are single don’t miss this opportunity to do something special for YOU.

Especially if you’re single, what can you do today to proclaim your love for yourself?

What sensual delights can you gift yourself? What sweet words can you tell yourself to make sure you know just how special you really are to YOU? It’s all about falling in love with yourself and sharing that love with others, rather than looking for love to fill the deficiency or lack of love within.

Love is an inside job! 

The “job” on Valentine’s Day for singles is to claim yourself as precious! Don’t fall into the victim trap because no one is there for you today to make you feel special. You are special! And if you need convincing think about this quote from Sex and the City: “Being single used to mean that nobody wanted you. Now it means you’re pretty sexy and you’re taking your time deciding how you want your life to be and who you want to spend it with.”

Today make sure you…


  • Obsess about not having someone special.
  • Compare yourself to someone else.
  • Be in your pity potty.


  • Something special for yourself today.
  • Recognize and celebrate your uniqueness.
  • Something to honor your female body today.

All women, especially on Valentine’s Day for singles, are called to expand their self-love. This includes loving your sensual self and reclaiming the joy of being in your feminine body.

Maintaining the vitality in your beautiful feminine body, in a world that is structured to rob you of it takes commitment and self-love!

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Don’t buy into any sadness today because you don’t have a mate. This is a day for you to really take care of yourself emotionally. So celebrate Valentine’s day as a single and do something special for yourself. Consciously make this a special day for yourself. Here are some things you can do.

Valentine’s Day for Singles 10 Uplifting Activities

  1. Get a full body massage.
  2. Take a mental health day from work.
  3. Take an Epsom salt bath and add rose petals.
  4. Learn about a powerful feminine tool – The Yoni Egg.
  5. Write in your journal and list what you appreciate about yourself.
  6. Buy yourself the 1 thing you’ve been putting off buying yourself.
  7. Connect with nature… (walk, hike, sit outside)
  8. Ask your dearest friends to be your valentine.
  9. Buy yourself some spectacular roses!
  10. Treat yourself to something sweet. 

And today forward make some of these things a regular habit if you don’t already. Not used to taking time for yourself? Here are five key ways you can take time for yourself.

Have any other suggestions for Valentine’s Day for Singles?
And what can you do to love you today?

Leave a comment below and let me know. Thousands of other women come here each week for inspiration, information and wisdom. Your comment may provide support to someone else and be exactly what they needed to hear. Especially for Valentine’s day for singles.

And btw… will you be my Valentine? 🙂

Thanks for being here and for adding your perspective.

Ensure your single girlfriends aren’t sad this Valentine’s Day. And share this post with your single girlfriends you love.

I’m Anna-Thea, an author, Evolutionary Astrology, and Certifed Divine Feminine Educator. If you’d like to learn more about love… take my Love Quiz. And/or treat yourself to an Astrology reading with me!

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