Sexual Shame: How Is It Affecting Your Love Life?
Sexual shame is pervasive in our world.
It is dis-empowering to any individual, male or female.
You may have had an upbringing such that you don’t have a lot of sexual shame. Your parents may have been very open about sexuality. That is wonderful.
Regardless of your upbringing, however, in our culture, we all live in a sea of sexual shame. It is all around us. Sexual shame will hold you back from your full potential. It will not allow your sexuality to be expressed in a healthy way, which can affect your health and relationships. Sexual shame can keep you isolated.
Sexual Shame and Energy Blocks
When there is sexual shame, it manifests as energy blocks in the body. By moving your sexual energy in a way that clears the blocks, you can heal sexual shame.
Having quick sexual releases, or what I refer to as genital hiccups, can easily keep energy blocked in your genitals.
Genitally focused sex and sexual gratification is what I mean by genital hiccups. It doesn’t promote heart-centered sexuality. Your sexual expression becomes localized in your groin, limiting the full expression of this life-giving creative force.
Instead, allow the sexual energy to move through your whole body, especially through your heart, by delaying gratification. This will allow the sexual energy to be a healing and transformative energy in your body, as well as your psyche.
Enter Through The Heart
The heart is the point of entry for sexual connection if you want to heal your sexual wounds and the wounds between men and women.
Teaching men, who are sexually attracted to us, to “enter” us through our hearts first is of prime importance. It gives you a safe space. You will open and become sexually receptive on a deeper level.
Sexual expression through the heart becomes wholesome because it moves through the whole body.
When you become more sexually receptive, you become more succulent and vibrant. You no longer have to have a dull sex life that lacks imagination, feeling and spirit. You are like a flower that wants to blossom. Opening up your feminine essence is how you will learn to love your body and become the leader of love you are meant to be. A woman’s path of power is through the path of pleasure and connection.
You are like a flower that wants to blossom. Opening up your feminine essence and divine sexual expression is how you will learn to love your body and become the leader of love you are meant to be. A woman’s path to power is through the path of pleasure and connection.
Where in your sexual expression are you being called to let go of shame and open deeper to love, pleasure and connection in your intimate life?
I’m Anna-Thea, an author and Certifed Divine Feminine Educator. If you would like to be free from sexual shame in the bedroom check out my course “How to Feel More Connected and Comfortable with Your Partner.“