sexual reflexology

Sexual Reflexology: Your Heart and the Emotion Impatience

Last week we talked about the heart and how it is related to the emotion impatience. According to sexual reflexology the heart is related to the cervix inside a woman’s vagina. The cervix is the gate keeper to our womb. I find it interesting the cervix correlates to the heart. It is our heart that guards our womb.

Sexual Reflexology: The Heart and the Penis

The male counter part for sexual reflexology is the tip of the penis. In other words, the tip of a man’s penis is related to the heart. Therefore, when a man and a woman are in a deep sexual union, according to sexual reflexology, they are heart to heart. Imagine that. Your hearts are being effected even if you don’t consciously realize it. Even if you think you can have sex with no strings attached, you might want to re-consider that concept.

This is very important for us to understand. Intercourse is a deep energetic union. Whether the two engaged in such activity realize it or not, they are touching each other’s hearts very deeply. Energetic strings or cords develop between the two people. This is undeniable. I’ve felt these cords when experiencing a breakup. I felt as if part of me had been ripped out.

Nurturing Yourself

It is important to nurture yourself during such times to re-establish yourself energetically independent from another. Often people will quickly get into another relationship to fill this rip or tear in their energy field. Following their impulse and urge to merge with another.

You have heard of relationships on the rebound. Might this be an expression of impatience, the emotion related to the heart? Rebound relationships might occur due to lack of patience, lack of willingness to be with the pain. Wanting to move on without processing the rip or tear or wound that is present. Possibly not acknowledging that it even exists.

After you are in another relationship you can have energetic cords still attached to your ex-partner. Ultimately, we are all connected, however it is wise to be a guardian of your energy and not “plug” into someone else’s energy too soon or too early after a breakup. Of course there are always exceptions.

It is wise to look at your motivations for the “rebound” relationship? Most often it is better to give yourself time to heal. Give yourself time to mend the rip and to process the relationship that just ended. Give yourself time to understand what the gifts were for the two of you to be together. Patience is a virtue. Give it to yourself as a gift for your own spiritual maturation and your heart will love you for it.


I’m Anna-Thea, an intimacy coach. I help to empower in the area of intimacy and love. If you would like to find out more about how to create more fulfilling relationships, contact me at 702-306-3084 or visit

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