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Why Use Divine Feminine Energy To Attract A Man

Using feminine energy to attract a man isn’t bad… just make sure it’s divine. Your divine feminine energy is powerful! Are you using it wisely to attract a man? And what are you attracting?

Women are still freeing themselves from all the dysfunctional relationship issues that exist since…well the caveman days! If you use your divine feminine energy to attract a man it’ll make a positive difference in your life. And you’ll actively participate in the evolution of our species.

Many women end up in bad relationships because they don’t truly love themselves. How much do you really love yourself as a woman?

I want to ask you…

Are you stuck in any of these relationship patterns?

  • Having sex for security or out of a sense of duty.
  • With a man for all the wonderful material things he offers, ie trips, clothes, nice dinners.
  • With a guy, because you say to yourself, “he needs me.”
  • In a relationship where you are the only one in it. He is, for the most part, checked out!

If you’re stuck in any of these relationship patterns you need to know why using your divine feminine energy to attract a man will benefit you. Here are 4 good reasons.

Connect To Your Divine Feminine Energy To Attract A Man

Going in instead of going out to find your love. So many are on the internet or in bars looking for their love. We are literally programmed to think that love is outside of ourselves. With all of our wants, needs, and desires in the material world, it’s easy to get stuck thinking that our happiness is somewhere “out there.”

If you want a quality relationship get off the computer and out of the bars. Instead, look inside. Use your divine feminine energy to attract a man. Stop reaching out and reach within.

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The best way to attract a good man is through your divine feminine energy. Divine feminine energy is ultimately the power of self-love. When you fully love yourself as a woman you won’t be anxious or desperate. And you’ll attract a whole new kind of guy. You’ll free yourself from the relationship issues mentioned above.

More and more women are preferring a relationship with themselves over a bad relationship with a guy. And that’s great! Women are taking back their power by making self-love a priority. Yippie!

Still, we can’t deny it. Most women would love to find a great guy. Where are they and how do you do that? I say use your divine feminine energy to attract a man and don’t worry about the rest.

Some of us are on the 25-year relationship program and others are on the serial monogamy program. While others may want to explore open relationships. There are many options and many ways to relate. You don’t know how long you are going to be with someone when you start a relationship.

3 great tips for using divine feminine energy to attract a man.

1. Stop Trying So Hard

Let it happen. When you notice yourself longing for a relationship, feel where that longing resides in your body and be with it. Literally, spend time with the longing that resides in your body. What I’ve found is that it’s a sensual aliveness that connects me to my body.

When you sit with this longing without judgment and don’t try to fill it with something. Things like overworking, overeating, overdrinking, over “nightclubbing” or something similar, you create an energetic vacuum. The vacuum creates a space for something new to come in. With your divine patience, you’ll draw a higher vibrational experience to you and it may be your next love relationship.

2. Don’t be so afraid to be alone with yourself

Develop the fine art of aloneness. There is a big difference between feeling alone and aloneness. Aloneness can be a beautiful thing. Aloneness is when you have filled yourself up enough with self-love that you don’t feel lonely when you’re by yourself.

How long can you be by yourself without wanting to find someone or something to do? Have you ever gone to the movies by yourself? What activities do you feel perfectly comfortable doing all by yourself? And do you keep yourself busy just so that you won’t feel lonely?

We fill our lives up being busy because if we stop we’ll have to feel the pain we’ve been running from. Don’t run from yourself and build the beautiful and fine art of aloneness. When you do, you will develop such a beautiful sense of self-love and self-acceptance.

3. Trust In The Process

Life is magical. What if your life sequence was already written? What if everything that is going to happen to you is already in the hopper of your life waiting to unfold. I don’t actually know but I do believe that these love relationships we have are divine. The love relationships I’ve had were deep soul experiences.

I can’t imagine that these men in my life weren’t somehow divinely orchestrated. Even probably we have done it before in previous lives. So trust the process. Don’t hurry and don’t worry.

During the time that you’re single, engage fully in the alone time. Take this time to develop what I call, “Sacred Singlehood.” Cultivate a deeper relationship with you.

Trust that when the time is right, your beloved will show up. And not any sooner. You can’t push the process so simply enjoy it.

So stop trying so hard to fill your empty whole. Learn to be with that empty hole of longing instead trying frantically to fill it up. And ultimately trust in the process.

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What type of man have you attracted into your life?

What is your divine love story? How about times when you were single? What challenges have you experienced? What type of men have you attracted into your life?

Leave a comment below and let me know. Thousands of other women come here each week for inspiration and wisdom. Your comment may provide support to someone else.

I’m Anna-Thea, an author and Certified Divine Feminine Educator. If this article resonated with you and you’d like to learn more about cultivating your divine feminine energy to attract a good man check out my online courses.

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  1. Susan

    Great article, Anna Thea! Loved our session today and feel like I am make progress and getting unstuck. You are such a gift to this planet!

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